Wyldflower 2020 Slow and Simple Summer Guide

Welcome to Summer 2020 - a popsicle, sprinkler, let the kids get messy and hose them off kinda summer. The kind of summer our parents used to have: simple, slow, relaxed, unplanned - it's our chance to give that to our kids and ourselves.

We've gathered a list of things to aid in your SLOW & SIMPLE summer. Flag and bookmark this email and come back to it when you need a little inspiration.

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Resources on how to talk about Race with Children

As parents, it’s our moral duty to discuss racial unfairness with our kids (of any age) so they grow up to stand up for what’s right and not be silent. But how? Here are some expert resources to help guide you on the conversation. Bookmark this page and come back anytime you need a refresher or a jumping off point.

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Dear Fellow Momma - On Mother's Day

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Dear Fellow Momma (of littles, during quarantine) on Mother’s Day,

It may have taken a global pandemic for the world to realize that it’s us Moms who often sacrifice our needs for society to function. Us Moms who often carry the weight of the world. And you know what? It’s getting really heavy.

The truth is, I don’t know how we do it, either. I’ve become the teacher (teachers are my new heroes), chef (how is it that all the world’s children are going through a growth spurt at the same time?), maid, referee, cuddler, chief logistics officer, boo boo kisser - while desperately craving some space and freedom to breath.

As the often invisible glue that holds families together - I think we are finally “seen” by the world for all we do. All we handle. All we sacrifice. All the love we give.

But here’s the big question, DO YOU “see” you?

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The Modern Mom: Insert Yourself into the Family Equation

After our kids arrived, we noticed our once carefree weekends were now filled with playgrounds, play dates, birthday parties, extracurriculars — you name it. While fun for the kids, we didn’t understand why our little free time now revolved solely around them. We found ourselves craving a balance with more parent-friendly family activities that would leave us feeling more refreshed on Monday, not more tired.

The New York Times calls today’s parenting “relentless” and we are burning ourselves out. “Over just a couple of generations, parents have greatly increased the amount of time, attention and money they put into raising children.” We’re on a family size hamster wheel with Mr. Stress, Miss Sleepy and our lovable Little Crazies.

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2019: Reviewing our first year

2019 Year in Review!

What an incredible first year it has been - it wouldn’t be possible without you all following along, attending events and cheering us on so here is our year in review, thank you for being a part of it!

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Parents first, kids second.

Gasp, did I just say that? I can feel my Mother rolling her eyes while she snow birds in Florida.

When I was pregnant with my first, my Uncle whom I looked up to for his parenting style and his smart, kind children, told me “they came into our lives, I didn’t come into theirs” I run the show. This really stuck with me.

Then when my kids did arrive, I was really surprised at how everything that is “kid-friendly” wasn’t parent-friendly. Playgrounds can be great, but after about 20 minutes I start glazing over with boredom.

Do our weekends now consist of figuring out ways to entertain our kids?
What about our enjoyment?

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